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Valentines Day


This day of “love” is fast approaching.  What do you have in store for this day?

Well I will be in New Zealand for my sisters 50th birthday.

Let me see ….. Who of you are romantics at heart?  Do you spoil your partner, spending a lot of money for this day?   In my experience I feel that love should be showed everyday and we shouldn’t wait on particular day to show how much we care. 

What is love?  Lots of people don’t really know the meaning of this word.  I was married once and my ex-husband only told me he loved me when he was intoxicated.  Love is understanding each other, respecting each others views and feelings, commitment to the relationship and what it stands for.  It’s about giving and receiving.  Loving with no boundaries and accepting who we are.  When we in that foul mood and they will look at you understanding and still love you with all their heart. 

I hear friends and people talk.  They throw this word around like it’s something with no meaning what so ever.  Who of you have this love I’m talking about?

I found this quote:  The meaning of True Love

The meaning of true love is when you care for your lover’s happiness more than yours, when only he matters in your life and always be there for him.”

This would apply to all of us not just “him” ….. now where do our kids come into this.  It’s the same, right?  We have to love our kids with respect and understanding.  If we don’t they go off the rails and we’ve lost them.

I will be honest with you guys/gals …. I have not found this kind of love in all of my 45 years.  I’m am still waiting and when it comes by god I’ll be ready ……. 🙂